"I joined Ms. Elle's Patreon/Discord after watching all of Her videos on YouTube. I had never connected with anyone I met or personally interacted with until I found Ms. Elle. She is an amazing woman and I am beyond grateful for the role that She holds in my life. She is a beautiful soul, a humble woman, an excellent confidant, a charismatic person, and so many other wonderful things. She has created a space for people to come together and feel safe and loved. She takes it a step further and educates others on ways to safeguard their confidence, autonomy, and well-being, even outside of a "scene" or dynamic."
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T., UNITED STATES
"I feel so grateful and lucky to be a part of Ms. Elle's community (on Patreon/Discord). Goddess has made this space so people can be who they are, learn and grow in safe place. In a world filled with hate and anger and people hiding on the internet to be mean, it just makes this community that much more special. The rays of light that Goddess emanates are powerful, just like the advice and information Goddess shares and tries to spread. She does so much for so many."
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L., AUSTRALIA
"Me and my boyfriend recently found Ms. Elle's YouTube channel. We've been in a D/s relationship for a few months, and we've been slowly getting more and more into the BDSM world and we love it! We love Ms. Elle's videos! She gives us so much knowledge and information and tips on how to healthily participate in the BDSM world and we definitely have an amazing BDSM relationship because of her and her content! And we also got a lot of ideas from her books too that has made the bedroom more fun so, she's great, and I'm so thankful for all the information!"
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C., UNITED STATES
"I am a new soft Domme with an experienced sub. I started so nervously but watching Ms. Elle's videos has helped me more than I can really put into words in terms of the emotional side of things. She's an amazing woman and I wanted to take this time to thank her for all her work for the BDSM scene; it is truly a buffet!"
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L., UNITED STATES
"Ms. Elle is truly a blessing to the world. Every single person who has the pleasure to have Her in their lives, even if just for a moment while watching one of Her YouTube videos, is all the better for it; they feel seen & heard. She takes the time to soothe our fears, to understand us, to help mend the damaged parts of us. She helps others feel more whole. I don't think there is anything more deserving of praise than that. She is worthy of all our gratitude and adoration; She is a treasure of the most rarest and beautiful kind."
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S., UNITED STATES
"I started following Ms. Elle on her first IG (that got deleted) shortly after I left my ex-husband. Maybe just before even. Even at that point I knew I was a submissive that had just not found her proper Dom. Mama welcomed me into her community with open arms. She takes the time to check in on all her babies either publicly or personally. I am so thankful for the community that she has given us.
I am so thankful for the leadership that she provides. I am so thankful for the love that I feel from her and her community. I'm so thankful that I can call her my friend. I have been through a lot of crappy stuff over the past couple of years. Some of it crappy some of it's scary. I don't know that I would be standing here with my head held as high as it is without Mama Bear."
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P., UNITED STATES
"I have been studying FemDom for two years now waiting for it to align in the way I wanted. It was all so hard-core for what I wanted to do, but Ms. Elle's content is phenomenal! It has helped me more in months than the last two years of searching! I finally understand who and what I want to be as a FemDom!"
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E., SPAIN
“I listened to Ms. Elle give a piece of advice for a girl on a live stream and it really got to me. My first online Dom treated me kind of poorly and of course I fell in love with him. But after talking to Ms. Elle, I realize it’s not Dom behavior, and it has made a real impact and difference. Thank you, Ms. Elle.”
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J., SWEDEN
"When I consider everything that Ms. Elle has helped me come to know, I count myself truly blessed to have been welcomed into Her community and proud to call Her my friend, mentor, and greatest inspiration! Since I joined the #ellexarmy on Patreon/Discord after discovering Her on YouTube and Instagram, I feel I have been slowly but surely learning to let go of pain, trauma and finding out more about myself. In a world where people have constantly belittled me, and I have struggled to let go of their ridicule and prejudice; She has continuously instilled a sense of willingness to combat the demons of my past, and I know that I'm not the only one for whom She's done that! She is every bit as kind, wise, talented, intelligent and humble as She is beautiful, and She has taught me so many things via Her amazing content."
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M., UNITED KINGDOM
"I'm so glad I found Ms. Elle's YouTube channel. She has given me an opportunity to learn something I am completely unfamiliar with. I have been my boyfriend's submissive for the last two years, but the past year we have been discussing more feminine aspects to our relationship, and it has snowballed into many different aspects that I have never experienced or are familiar with. I appreciate all of Ms. Elle's information and I'm so glad to have Her experience to learn from!"
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T., UNITED STATES
"I found Ms Elle’s content while working on myself and trying to prevent falling back into codependent behaviour. I found hope, for things that I had given up on, specifically the idea of a (D/s) dynamic and parts of myself that I had tried to make go away. The information that Ms. Elle shares helped me to understand things I wasn’t aware of previously, and that I can prevent repeating the past because I know more. This community has been amazing in that there has been nothing but acceptance and love from so many people. This isn’t something I’m used to but I feel lucky to have become a part of this community."
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F., AUSTRALIA
“I’ve been a FemDom to several girls for about four years, and I have one Kajira. It’s very difficult and not many people understand. But my sessions with Ms. Elle have given me courage, insight, and shown me that I’m not a sexual deviant for being myself. She is amazing in every way.”
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N., UNITED STATES
“Working with Ms. Elle has been the best thing for me. After our first session, I was inspired to go to my Dominant and request a different dynamic. (He had always been into the Master/slave dynamic.) I mentioned that I'd like to try a different type of role and we settled on Daddy/kitten. It has honestly been the best thing for us. I feel so much more cared for and respected. But needed at the same time. And he feels more fulfilled and respected as well. I would have never had the courage to suggest this type of dynamic without working with Ms. Elle. She really is so inspiring and impactful. Thank you Ms. Elle for sharing your time and knowledge!”
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A., UNITED STATES
“I contacted Ms. Elle to get a checklist for dating dudes, and working with her has helped so so much in regaining my trust in my own intuition, and I can now spot early signs for unhealthy character traits in men/humans. Coaching with Ms. Elle has given me trust and strength in myself. I think if anything goes wrong, I’d be able to handle the situation way better than before and still listen to my inner voice and make good decisions for myself. Thank you again!”
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O., GERMANY
“I have been in the BDSM community for ten years and trying to share it with my new boyfriend. After finding Ms. Elle’s YouTube channel, I decided to contact her and I am so glad I did. She has helped me know how to approach my boyfriend and get to know his interests without overwhelming him with mine first. I think he’s also been taking tips and ideas from Ms. Elle’s books, which is lovely.”
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R., UNITED STATES
"I almost left BDSM altogether when I became frustrated with vague Googled articles and seeing people post their Lifestyle but not know how to explain the beauty if one was curious. I decided to give BDSM one last chance when I came across Ms. Elle’s content. I’ve learned more from her in the last year than I have from people online in the past five to six years. Ms. Elle has explained things I wanted from this Lifestyle in ways I couldn’t think of to tell my Sir. My Sir was hesitant at first too since he was new, but fell even more in love with the Lifestyle after I showed him Ms. Elle’s content. Ms. Elle has helped me form a unique bond with my Sir that could never be replicated with other people."
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A., UNITED STATES
“Being a part of Ms. Elle’s community has given me an open, free and comfortable space to explore my interests and sexuality without fear of judgment or negativity. It's like a fun, cute, and caring family, that likes to play and be open about everything we want, feel and hope to discover. It has given me a massive increase in confidence, helped me find my soft dominant side. I feel... freed, from decades of oppression by my brain and traumas suffered as a child and young adult.”
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G., UNITED KINGDOM
“Just did my first session with Ms. Elle and it was so helpful. Totally amazed how fast she was able to key in on the issues and then give very strategic and practical advice. I was able to put it to use that very night which ended being super amazing for me and my new partner in crime. Thank you! For those on the fence, you will not regret signing up!”
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S., CANADA
"This has been the very first community that has not only helped me be more confident in myself as a little but also helped soothe my shame by being so accepting from the get go and continuing to do so. I’m so fortunate to have joined at the beginning of my interest in BDSM so I could learn about pseudo doms, consent, etc. I’m so proud to be a part of Ms Elle’s community and encourage others to join in."
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P., UNITED STATES
“I love Ms. Elle’s community because of the genuine love and acceptance I've received from everybody I have encountered here. I have never rushed to fit in and I have always been allowed to settle in at my own pace. This community is filled with amazing, like-minded kinky individuals who have all become family and everyone has been truly amazing. There are so many great kinky channels to explore your kinks with the community in a safe, judgment-free, and respectful way. I have never felt judged when I have asked a question about a kink whether it is my own or someone else's because we are all here to help each other grow and become better healthier people.”
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J., UNITED KINGDOM