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Stop Fearing Abuse: How Safewords Empower Dominants in BDSM Dynamics
Learn how safewords in BDSM empower dominants to overcome insecurity around pushback, internal struggle, and perceived resistance, while...
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The 8 Types of BDSM Punishments Every Dominant Should Master
Master the eight types of BDSM punishments to deepen trust and structure in your dynamic. Discover how each type reinforces discipline...
4 min read
625 views


The Art of Dominance: A Comprehensive Guide to Domination for BDSM Newbies
Uncover the art of true dominance and emotional fulfillment in BDSM with our comprehensive guide to Domination for BDSM Newbies.
4 min read
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The Ultimate Guide to Non-Physical BDSM Punishments
Exploring non-physical BDSM punishments opens up a realm of creativity and effectiveness that can be incredibly rewarding for both players.
3 min read
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12 BDSM Scene Types (Scene Themes) for Incredible Play!
Have you ever found yourself mid-scene, excited and prepared, only to feel something just… missing? Many of us have, and here’s why: not all
5 min read
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Maintaining Scene Flow: The Dominant’s Guide to Seamless Aftercare in BDSM
Aftercare is an essential part of kinky play, but many Dominants don't realize that aftercare doesn't have to interrupt your BDSM scene flow
5 min read
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The Secret Key to Submissive Training in Your Dom/sub Relationship
When it comes to submissive training in your Dom/sub relationship, there's a significant yet often misunderstood power exchange at play...
4 min read
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Locktober: Why Male Chastity is a Fetish and Female Chastity is Frowned Upon
Locktober is all about male chastity, but I have heard a number of questions along the lines of, "What about female chastity? Is that..."
4 min read
727 views


Erotic Degradation: A Trauma-Informed Perspective on Degradation and Humiliation Play in BDSM
Degradation play, often labeled as one of the more challenging aspects of BDSM, is a form of consensual power exchange where the...
6 min read
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Is the Locktober Challenge Worth It? A Discussion on the Benefits of Long-Term Chastity Play
Welcome to the world of Locktober! The viral Locktober challenge is considered a fun way to get into chastity play, as it's designed to...
5 min read
939 views


How to Be a Dom: The Complete Guide for Becoming a BDSM Dominant
The best, most seductive Domination isn’t just about barking orders or administering maintenance spankings. True dominance goes far...
5 min read
4,200 views


How to Find Your Dominant Style: Breaking Out of the Box
Being a great Dominant isn’t about squeezing yourself into a pre-defined mold or archetype. It’s about something far more liberating...
5 min read
567 views


10 Easy Ways to Add More FemDom to Your Female Led Relationship
Have you recently introduced your girlfriend or wife to BDSM, and to your surprise, she’s open to the idea of dominating you? But now,...
5 min read
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10 Secrets to an Awesome BDSM Relationship
Do you desire a profoundly erotic Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship or lifestyle with your partner but don’t know where to start?...
5 min read
320 views
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